clitoris stimulation:you want to know

Many women blame men for not knowing how to stimulate their clitoris. Usually, men only caress him to increase their arousal shortly before penetration, while women would often want these caresses to bring them to orgasm (clitoral orgasm). Also, many men don't know how to give clitoral orgasm to their partner.

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In fact, the statistics are not in favor of men: from 90 to 95% of women are able to reach orgasm by stimulating the clitoris alone, while only 40-45% of men are able to orgasm their own partner with caresses of the clitoris.

Possible explanation?

A possible explanation could be the selfishness of men who want that their partner reach orgasm only with their sex and it is difficult for them to accept that women can have some pleasure without penetration!

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The clitoris is part of what we call the vulva, which is located near the anterior junction of the labia minora, above the opening of the vagina. On both sides of the vaginal opening, there are two folds of the skin, the intertwined small labia and the labia majora revealed themselves. In front of the vulva (if the woman is standing) or at the top (if the woman is lying on her back) is the clitoris. Only the glans of the clitoris is visible. It is the size of a small currant.

The outer side of the labia majora is covered with skin tissue, which is covered with pubic hair. The external and internal sides of the labia minora are devoid of pubic hair and covered by a very vascular and innervated mucosa, which is characteristic of an erogenous area.

In order to see and touch the clitoris, the woman must have her thighs slightly open. It must spread the labia majora then the labia minora and return between the labia minora because the clitoris is in the union of the labia minora under the hood that you will have to discover gently. With the finger, the clitoris is perceived as a small bulge.

The anatomy of the clitoris is quite close to that of the penis: it is made up of two erectile tissues, a glans penis, a frenulum and a cap. The glans of the clitoris, in particular, is very innervated, very vascular and contains numerous pleasure receptors, which is characteristic of a very erogenous area.

The vulva and clitoris, like man's penis, swell with blood during excitement. Contrary to the penis, the clitoris does not cross the urethra and sexual differentiation has made it a smaller organ because it is not supposed to penetrate. However, it is an organ in its own right, which is not, at worst, an atrophic penis, as men often say even though its anatomy is similar! The similarity is only anatomical because its sensitivity is almost the opposite of that of the male sex.

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To caress the clitoris well, it is important to know the reproaches that women direct towards their male partners:

• Does too quickly for the clitoris, without preliminary approaches.

• Does not caress me; it's rubbing me and it's irritating me.

• He's pushing us too hard.

• He does not find the right rhythm and his caresses are, from the beginning, too fast.

• It is changing its strokes too often.

• It doesn't turn me on long enough and would like me to come immediately.

In fact, many men caress their partner's clitoris in the same way they used to masturbate, which is with strength, firmness and speed. Women like the opposite: sweetness, finesse, delicacy and no rush.

The clitoris, unlike the human penis, is a very sensitive organ, which hates to be touched before having reached its outside and without having already started a beginning of sexual arousal. So avoid the brutal attack or oral manual at the clitoral level without having already excited your partner with more common and generalized caresses. Don't forget that you should always start on the outskirts of the erogenous area before proceeding progressively. No caress of the vulva without first generalized caresses and no clitoral caress before the caresses of the vulva.

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The middle finger and index finger are the preferred finger for stroking the clitoris.

Your fingers, moistened with your saliva as a lubricant, will run around the vulva first, then progress into the gap between the labia majora and labia minora, then around the entrance of the vagina. The caresses will be delicate, not too pressed to not rub, and you will continue to pay attention to your partner's pleasure or expressions of displeasure.

After spending a few minutes around the clitoris and when your partner gets enough arousal, you will be able to touch it lightly.

The most sensitive areas of the clitoris are the glans penis and the frenulum, which is located under the glans penis. But it can also be the cap that covers the glans penis.

The glans of the clitoris is very sensitive, so sometimes it is better to caress it thinking about its hood, or between the labia minora, because too direct contact can sometimes be painful. Caresses should be done on a large enough surface and not be limited to avoid pressing too hard or rubbing.

Always start with very gentle strokes and a slow pace before increasing the pressure or the pace of your stroking.

The movement most appreciated by women is often a circular movement around the clitoris, or movement back and forth, from top to bottom, in the vulva axis.

The rhythm of the stroking should be constant, without stopping, so do not change your hand or finger during the stroking. This rhythm will increase when the woman approaches orgasm.

Just before orgasm, the clitoris retracts under the hood and is often no longer noticeable under the finger, but it is necessary to continue to caress it in the same place, at the same rhythm and not to seek the glans in order not to interrupt time, which will bring the your partner to orgasm.

During orgasm, you need to continue stroking your partner even if she squeezes the pantyhose. You will only stop when he asks you.

For oral caresses, the principle is the same but the caress can be carried out directly on the glans because the contact is more delicate with the tongue than with the fingers. You can kiss the vulva as if you were kissing your partner on his lips, move your lips to his lips, slide his tongue over the whole vulva and suck your partner's lips between his lips. The tip of the tongue can slide into the gap between the labia majora and labia minora and at the entrance to the vagina. You could also run your tongue out of the vulva, near the anus or near the veneris Msgr.

Don't forget to use your free hands for complementary caresses on other parts of the body, which will accentuate your partner's pleasure.

Finally, you should know that every woman is different, so you will have to let yourself be guided by your partner who will show you what she likes most: sweeter, harder, faster, taller, lower, etc. At first, you may want to let your hand be guided by his hand.

To conclude, remember that the clitoral orgasm is strong, intense and pleasant than the vaginal orgasm. It is not a "pseudo-orgasm" contrary to what some psychoanalysts said at the beginning of the century. Both orgasms are slightly different but one is not "better" than the other, each woman has her preferences.

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